Can one person really make a difference in the world today?
“It is during adversity when one can really make a big difference. But making a difference is not about being a big hero. It is simply about leaving the bathroom a little cleaner going out, than when you came in.”
One day a man was walking along the seashore. He noticed that during the night many seashells and starfish had washed upon the beach. Thoroughly enjoying the morning sun and cool sea air, the man walked for miles.
As he strolled along, he noticed a small figure dancing in the distance. It made him chuckle to think of someone celebrating life in such an uninhibited way. As he drew closer, however, it became apparent that the figure was not dancing. Instead, she seemed to be repeatedly performing some ritual.
He drew nearer still and noticed that the small figure was a child. She was methodically picking up starfish and tossing them into the surf. He paused for a moment, puzzled, then asked, “Why are you throwing these starfish?”
“It’s high tide,” she replied, “If I leave them on the beach, the sun will soon dry them and they will die. I am throwing them into the ocean so they can live.” The man considered her actions, impressed with the child’s thoughtfulness. Then he motioned up and down the miles of the beach. “There must be thousands of starfish along here,” he said, “you cannot possibly make a difference.”
The young girl stopped. Her face darkened. She chewed thoughtfully on her lower lip, “You’re probably right,” she said softly. She looked down at the sand. Then she leaned over, carefully picked up another starfish, pulled back and arched it gently into the sea.
With a tone of gentle defiance, she said, “But I made a difference for that one.”
Pass it on
One New Yorker thought so. He was determined to be complimentary to every he saw, every day. A friend asked him,”DO you even compliment cab drivers?” The man said, “certainly! If I am nice to one cab driver, he’s likely to be nice to his next twenty fares, at a minimum. If they are in turn nicer to the shopkeepers, waitresses, and their own families, that one gesture of goodwill might influence at least a thousand people!
“Now, if only three people that I talk to today have a happier day because of what i say to them, I might indirectly influence the attitude of 3,000 people.If a few of those I talk to are teachers, or people who have contact with more than the usual number of people…. why my good mood might touch more than 10,000 lives. Not one other thing I do today is likely to have that kind of impact!”
“Pass on a portion of what you have today. If you have nothing but your own smile, goodwill, and joy – pass it on! You can make a difference.”